Doing too much?

Here’s what I know…there are concequences to “doing too much” for others.  Sometimes I go out of my way or facilitate a process for someone that I love, or I try so hard to fix their situation while my own situations go neglected.  While I cannot say that I should ever “quantify” love or keep track of the times I help other people, I should always be mindful of the reasons I go out of my way for others.  It’s important to know the reasons why I prioritize others then feel bad when the gesture is not reciprocated. It is important to acknowledge that every act goes up to the universe, and the universe will not lie to return the gesture back to me…

The lesson; I must give to myself the same very best things that I would give others.  The time the energy the love that I give must always be given void of frustration, control, anger or impatience.  It should not be given because I think I know a better way, even if I am certain…because that way would be best for ME, and not necessarily what the other person needs right now. If I function from the place where I know that what goes around comes around, and that I am the creator of my reality, and that God walks constantly by my side…if I know that I only know these things because I have made efforts on my own behalf to facilitate my growth…then I must also acknowledge that we all, individually,  have to go through that process to grow, and learn and thrive and create wonderful experiences in our lives…I am not helping the people that I love by forcing their process or manufacturing my ideal of happiness for them, regardless of what I know. 

Thank God I’m paying attention.

In light and love…Be blessed, be sexy, choose joy.

Tashe